We’re back today with the next edition of our Goal Guide series! Many of us are striving toward the same things: deeper relationships, a growing faith, and a healthy lifestyle, to name a few. We created this series to spotlight one of those topics at a time and create a bank of ideas for your Tending List! Now, when you want to make progress on your fitness, faith, or nutrition goals, for instance, you can use these posts for inspiration!
This week’s topic is parenting! I’m very new to this (10 weeks to be exact), but being the best mama I can be shot right to the top of my PowerSheets priorities the moment I found out I was expecting. As moms, we want to be more present, patient, and nurturing with our children. One thing that helps me make imperfect progress? Coming up with meaningful and practical ways I can love on my baby well. Thankfully I got some help from the Moms Cultivating What Matters with PowerSheets Facebook group. Veteran mamas, please share your ideas in the comments below as well!
- Read one new-to-you parenting book (We love the idea of inviting your husband to join you for this goal!)
- Tackle an age-appropriate milestone goal such as sleep training, solid foods, weaning, or potty training
- Do a seasonal craft, outing, or activity
- Create a family mission statement
- Get up-to-date in each child’s baby book or scrapbook
- Plan a family trip
- Get involved in children’s school activities
- Join a moms’ group or play group
- Learn 2-3 new age-appropriate games
- Create a chore chart or family values chart to track progress
- Work through the Parents Goal Companion Guide
- Pick a topic to learn about and check out several books on that topic from the library
- Take an infant or child CPR class
- Frame and hang photos of and artwork by your children
- Have 3-5 sit-down family dinners together
- Attend church and discuss what you learned
- Write a letter, email, or diary entry to children to read when they’re older
- Take child to 1-2 activities such as play group, story time, or music class
- Plan a special one-on-one date for each child
- Call a mom friend to seek advice
- Host a play date for each of your children to invite friends over
- Memorize a weekly Bible verse together
- Teach your child to cook a new dish with you
- FaceTime a faraway family member
- Make artwork together (Don’t stress about making a mess!)
- Spend an hour of uninterrupted technology-free time with each child
- Pray for and with each child
- Read 2-3 books before bedtime
- Keep your phone in another room during play time or conversations
- Pack homemade lunch for each child (Adding an encouraging note while you’re at it!)
- Laugh together!
- Talk about ways your children modeled your family values
- Show gratitude for good behavior
- Ask each child to list five things they are grateful for from the day
- Get outside and active together: ride bikes or take an afternoon walk and talk about what you see
- Practice patience: respond with grace and say yes whenever possible
- Tell your children how much you love them!
These are just a few suggestions for items to add to your Tending List each month to make progress on your parenting goals for the year!
We’d love to hear from you: what else would you add to this list?